Are you loyal to the past or the future?

Life has taught me that you can’t control somebody’s loyalty 💜

Loyalty is an amazing attribute that not everyone is familiar with.

Or maybe they are familiar with it, they are just confused by who deserves it.

When it comes to life we’re destined to repeat the patterns of our parents and our grandparents if we don’t get real with ourselves.

I’m not ok with doing things the same way they’ve always been done. I’ll rock the boat and be the black sheep of the family if that means I get to help break the dysfunction.

God didn’t give you your partner so you can create yet another generation of the same old nonsense. In fact if you are loyal to your spouse then this article won’t even apply

To you.

I spent the last 20 years loyal and committed to my marriage and my family. I sacrificed so many of my own dreams over the years so that I could help my family succeed.

I knew that one day he would be supporting me and cheering me on. But it turns out that’s

Not how this story ends.

I will follow my dreams and create a new destiny for myself and my daughter, because I learned how to be loyal to Tavia for the first time in my entire life.

I’m sorry if your dad wasn’t a good role model when it comes to being a dad or a husband. I’m sorry if he was never around, if he abandoned you, or if he could never muster

The words I love you, I know how much that hurts.

I’m sorry if it was your mom instead of your dad. I’m sorry that the first people that were supposed to teach you about loyalty didn’t have a clue where to begin.

I’m sorry if your parents had a loveless marriage, that’s not how it was supposed to be.

I’m sorry if parents broke up.

I’m sorry if they never once showed you what a real marriage is supposed to look like.

I’m sorry if you were responsible for your parents happiness, it was never supposed

To be that way.

When you know better you do better.

But if your unable to admit where things went wrong and you have no ability to self reflect then you my friends will be stuck in the cycle

Forever.

The truth is this

You can repeat history or you can change it and the choice is all yours.


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