New Easter Traditions

Happy Easter 🐣

Beautiful Souls

He is Risen

👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼Me As A kid on Easter the one standing👇🏼

It’s another first for me 🐇

My first easter single in 20 years

And it’s a little bit different but it’s also been

Absolutely amazing and full of unconditional love and support

My best friend of 25 years is in town and my new friends and my old friends are filling me with a new kind of love

I often wish I could fast forward through this mess but I understand exactly what God’s doing with me even if I wish it would happen a little faster

Change is scary and beautiful at the same time

Being able to open my heart again is the biggest blessing I have right now

If your life’s a little bit upside down right now please know that your not alone

Give your self the same grace that you give others and know that Gods got huge plans for your future

And all becuase you were brave enough to listen to him and to let go and move on

You might think that I would be sad when it comes to the Holidays, and while there might be a few things I miss there’s hundreds of things I’ll never miss again

I hope your Easter is spent with people who love you unconditionally and just the way you are

And if you find yourself in a family or a relationship that doesn’t know your worth message me and I will

Help you plan your escape 💜

My life is different and it’s all because God showed up and told me what I’m worth

He is

Risen

#newbeginnings

#newloves

#newtraditions

Happy Easter

💜 Tay Tay

Is it worth your energy?

Is it worth your energy?

When it comes to people and places and things it’s always a good idea to ask yourself if they are worth your energy?

I can tell you that after years of wasting my energy on those who didn’t deserve it, I’m a whole lot more particular on who and where I spend my time.

You see time is a gift and it’s the one thing we can never get back. It matters wholeheartedly what you do every single day.

Sometimes people think that living a balanced life means working out and eating right, and while that’s part of it it’s far from balanced.

We tend to over work as humans and run ourselves ragged because we think that’s what life’s all about.

But I beg to differ, because I think life’s all about waking up. It’s about learning to be still with yourself and loving every minute of it.

Americans think the more they work and the busier they are the happier they will become, but this is an illusion of the ego.

When you can learn to be alone and to be still with yourself then you are well on your way to an enlightened spiritual life.

I used to be a normal American girl until I found my light. Now I see that I’ve been given an amazing gift that I get to share with the entire world.

I understand that by healing my shit it automatically helps other people heal their shit too.

You can spend your entire life running from yourself or you can break your heart wide and let the love pour out.

All of your hurt and your pain is not for nothing. It’s a part of your story and it’s what makes you unique. But you’ve got to be willing to show up for yourself.

Every single time I find myself coming from a place of fear I stop and I forgive myself. I take a deep breath, and I realize what I’m doing.

This makes me conscious to the fact that I’m in the fear zone and it allows me to bring myself back to state of acceptance.

Life is not happening to you Friends, it’s responding to you.

You can surround yourself with light and love or with ego and fear, the choice is yours.

I hope your having a great Easter Weekend and that your choosing the light 💡

#TruthsWithTayTay

Thank you for reading my blog beautiful souls 💜

Peace God Bless Namaste

You are not for everyone

Good morning beautiful souls!

Guess what?!?!?

You are not for everyone and once you learn to accept this your entire life will change.

I know what’s it’s like to want people to like you. It’s the way we are made. We don’t like rejection and so we’re willing to sacrifice parts of ourselves to fit in.

For years I tried to change parts of who I was to fit into a family that would never accept me for who I am.

I pushed my own wants and needs aside so that I could make them happy, And it worked for quite a few years. As long as I played the role they wanted me to play it was all good.

But the longer I stayed there the more misunderstood I felt. It’s absolutely suffocating to be judged by people who just don’t get you.

Does it make me less loveable because they don’t have the ability to see my heart?

Absolutely not!

You see those people aren’t my people. No matter what I say or what I do it would never be good enough for them.

They live in their heads and I live in my heart and those paths are completely different.

So instead of trying to convince people of your worthiness just let them go.

The people that love you for you are going to always be in your life, and the ones who don’t belong there will take another path.

Our lives are so short and tomorrow’s not promised. Let go of everything and everyone who’s energy doesn’t align with yours and be brave enough to walk a new path.

💜 Tay Tay

Guess who gets to spend a month with her bestie?

My best friends coming to town for an entire month!?!?! Can you say hallelujah?!?

This girls been a part of my life for the last 23 years and we’ve got lots of crazy memories together.

You know that I don’t believe in coincidences, so it’s meant to be that she’s here right now and going to be here for some of the craziest parts of my life.

I am so thankful that we’ve remained friends over the years and I can’t wait to see where the month takes us.

She has a new baby I can’t wait to squeeze and love on.

Some people in our lives are only supposed to be chapters, while others are a part of our entire book.

Learning the difference between the 2 gets a whole lot easier as you get older. And if I could help you change one thing I would teach you about letting go.

Don’t hold onto things that are meant to be let go of. Don’t bother with people who don’t make you feel good.

As soon as it’s not fun with the new guy say good bye and thank you next. Don’t try to change him and don’t try to convince him of how amazing you are.

Say if your not into me, I’m not into you.

The people that are your people will love you exactly the way you are. They won’t ever want you to change and they will help you shine your light brighter then ever.

She’s my people

She’s been my people since the day I met her

And she will always be my people

(And not only because she know all of my secrets)

Here’s to a month full of new memories made with people I love.

Here’s to a new month of new relationships and lots of laughter.

Thanks for reading my blog please connect with me on social media so I can get to know you better

💜 Tay Tay

Namaste

God bless

Peace Friends

To the girl that’s learning to use her voice again

I’m so proud of you for using your voice and speaking your truth. There’s not a more vulnerable thing in this entire world that you could do. I know how hard it is to speak when your afraid or unsure, but you’ve got to start doing it.

I know for years you’ve done things one way and now your trying to do things differently. Your reclaiming your authentic voice which was lost during your child hood and I’m so excited for you to learn how to use it.

When you don’t speak up you lose parts of yourself to other people. You literally give away your power to keep the peace or to make them happy, but that’s not the right thing to do.

That’s unhealthy as hell and you’ve got to change it starting today.

We are creating a new generation of women. Girls that use their voices even when they shake.

Girls that know that you can be afraid and brave at the exact same time. Girls who are not people pleasers and not bitches either.

Girls who are vulnerable and badass at the same time. Strong, faithful, confident women.

If we want to change the world girls we can’t be like the world. We have to bring a new balance and energy forth being women today. We have to learn to how to have the hard conversations, and how to speak up even we’re afraid.

The next time you find yourself pushing your own feelings aside to make someone else happy I hope you remember this blog.

I hope that you can muster the courage to speak your truth and to do it wholeheartedly because your so worth it.

💜 Tay Tay

Learning to bypass your own judgments and bullshit

I’m fairly new to the dating scene and after 20 years with the same guy it seems I’ve got a shit ton to learn. (It’s a good thing I’m a personal development and spirit junkie)

Clearly being single brings about a whole new set of joys and dramas. I remember thinking I would never want to go through the dating process again, but I was just lying to myself. (This shits exciting)

There’s so many fun things about being single again. There are a million new feelings I get to feel every single week and it’s been fucking forever ever since I’ve felt some of these emotions.

There are times I’m completely flattered by the things men say to me and then there are other times when I’m like no you did not say that or send that! (But this does make me laugh)

Here’s the biggest difference I’ve made when it comes to my mindset and men.

Instead of saying nope he’s not my type, he’s not my type, and he’s not my type, I’ve decided to create a new type.

Clearly looks aren’t enough at this point in my life. I’m learning how to talk to other guys that I probably wouldn’t even normally notice.

And not because they aren’t nice and cute, just because I was so judgmental.

I had to say no way to a 22 year old as flattered as I was, and yes even Though I thought he was super cute that’s just to young for Tay Tay.

My maiden name was Robinson but I’m not that Mrs. Robinson.

When you can learn to love yourself then you can attract a new kind of guy into your life. (This does not mean you won’t still attract selfish arrogant assholes because you will) But the difference is that you will be able to read through their bullshit a whole faster and you won’t waste a bunch of time and energy on them.

My favorite tag line right is for sure “Thank You Next”

When you learn to love yourself then you learn to be yourself. There’s not a better feeling in this entire world then being comfortable in your own skin.

Someone will love you exactly the way you are. They will love every single bit of you even the broken parts. They won’t want you to change a thing and when you do grow it will because you guys are growing together.

Date the farmer you wouldn’t normally even look at.

Give the younger guy a chance because he’s sweet.

Date the bald guy that you would normally ignore.

Give the guy With a beard a chance.

Get to know they guy with the big truck even though he’s not your type.

Date younger date older.

Open your eyes and pay attention.

You never know where your next best friend might come from but you’ve got to be willing to get past yourself to create something new.

“Finally realizing I was never asking for too much I was just asking the wrong person”

I had the courage to let go and start over

I don’t want a boyfriend I want lots of friends 💜

I’m going to have the best spring and summer of my entire life!

💜 Tay Tay

Your the best for reading my blog I appreciate you

Peace God Bless Namaste

To the girl that’s trying to change her life

To the girl that’s trying to change her life, I see you and your not alone.

Girlfriend there are going to be good days and bad days along this journey, but I want you to focus on today.

Forget what happened last week or yesterday forget what you said wrong or did wrong and start focusing on all the shit that your doing right.

Someone pushes your buttons and you act a fool but you’ve gone 3 weeks without any negativity with that person then who cares about the second you lost it.

Don’t you dare give away the victory in the 3 week hustle for the one second where you flipped your lid.

You are strong and brave and bold and capable and your strong as fuck for changing your life.

Look at how many people live a miserable unhappy life just because they fear change.

But not you!

You my sweet girl are jumping in with both feet and taking your life to a new level so don’t beat yourself up.

You’ve got more courage then most people I know and it doesn’t matter what anyone else in the entire world thinks. What matters is that you are a badass warrior of light and love.

I promise you the more you focus on the things your doing right the less negative self talk you will have in your head.

The more positive people you will attract into your life. But only because you were brave enough to let go.

To the girl who’s brave enough to change her life you are about to be rewarded beyond your wildest dreams but your going to have to embrace the storms to get to the sunshine ☀️

Keep your eyes open for the blessings along the way because every single day there will be a new one.

Be open to meeting new people and trying new things especially with people that aren’t like you!

Get the hell out of your norm and learn to have fun again because life’s way to short to be anything but happy.

I’m proud of you and so are many others. Keep your heart open so that it can receive the love that your truly deserve.

May your Saturday be filled with lots of laughter and love 💜

Thanks for reading my blog beautiful souls

Peace God Bless Namaste

Break the chains and fly away forever free to be your authentic self 💜