Loyal AF

I’ve worked entirely way to hard on my life to allow anyone with negative vibes to enter my space.

My circle is loyal as fuck and I wouldn’t trade any of them ever.

When it comes to the peace of your soul it takes a lot to learn Presence.

It doesn’t matter if they call you crazy as long as you are surrounded by light and love

And your own group of crazies.

Should you ever find yourself blocked or deleted from my page then without a doubt you don’t belong here.

Boundaries are a must for healthy happy relationships. Everyone is not your friend and everyone doesn’t need to like you.

In fact if you have a few enemies it means that you actually stand for something.

Never be afraid to show up and to use your voice to speak truth to bull shit.

Don’t worry about what other people think of You, their opinion is none of your business.

Once you’ve learned to stand up for what you believe in you can teach your friends to do the same!


Thanks for reading my blogs

I appreciate you


God Bless


I’m far from perfect but as least I’m not fake and…..

I’m far from perfect but at least I’m not fake and I sure as hell am not a liar.

You can’t tell the truth and be a liar. Eventually all of the lies will catch up with you and you won’t be able to keep them straight anymore.

That’s why it’s always best to keep it real. Tell the truth about yourself and if you don’t know the truth then maybe it’s better to just keep your mouth shut until you can figure it out for yourself.

Did you know that pride is one of the deadly sins? It causes beautiful angels to turn into demons and it’s a spiritual cancer.

Pride and ego are friends with devil, and if the angels can fall then so can you.

I find myself still having compassion for those who are lost inside themselves.

If they could just learn to be honest then everything would change, however if they continue on the path of destruction it will end in despair.

Is it possible that some people are so far removed from their own personalities that they themselves don’t know who they are.

There are times in your life when you have to accept responsibility for the messes that you’ve created. You have to learn to be able to say your sorry and to be honest about what you did and why you did it.

But if your always blaming someone else, then you are emotionally inept. Blame and shame are for the spiritually and emotionally weak souls in this world.

You might think that your getting away with things down here on earth but you know that once you get to heaven, Gods going to hold your ass accountable.

You are under attack by the enemy and you can ask for help at anytime, but that’s all on you. God can’t help someone who doesn’t think they need help.

Why do think he created free will?

He wants to you to wake up from yourself and go to him and confess it all.

Or you can keep doing things your way and see where you end up.

You are never to far gone for God to help you. There’s nothing in this world that he won’t forgive you for if your willing to be real.

💜 Tay Tay

Thanks for reading my beautiful friends


God Bless


I hope you realize your worth and if you need help message me yesterday

💜There comes a time in your life when you realize that your worth more.

That you are an adult and that this is your 1 and only life.

💁‍♀️There comes a time when you realize that your self worth is really tied up in what you do or what you don’t do for yourself.

You quit watching everyone else and comparing your story to their story.

Because even though they might be similar,

No one is you and that is your magic.

💜There’s comes a day when you begin to realize that you put all of your dreams on hold to help build someone else’s dreams.

And then you met me, and I taught you about taking a chance on yourself.💁‍♀️

I taught you that happiness comes from the inside and that you will never grow unless you make a conscious effort to wake up.

Your worth far more then you believe and until you start hanging out with people who force you to level up, then nothing in your life will ever change.

When your ready to truly start

Living message me and I will help you get started 💜


Love Tay Tay

I’m worthy of excitement and passion and desire

I’m worthy of love

Of coming first

Of being spoiled and adored

I’m worthy of excitement and passion

And desire

I’m worthy of a lifetime of adventure

Of feeling free


Worthy of being me

Ladies and gentlemen know your worth! If you don’t know what you want or what you desire then you will spend an entire life time just getting by.

I refuse to live a life that repeats unhealthy patterns. I won’t deny myself the love I deserve simply because your unable to grow.

I sacrificed many years of my life trying to fit in and be what other people wanted to me to be.

Until it finally made me so miserable I couldn’t wait to get out.

We cannot neglect our inner fire without damaging ourselves in the process.

The damage of course is a life lost unto itself. Millions of souls drifting through life, without and inner compass to give them direction.

They take their cues from others and live out scripts from someone else’s life. It’s a high price to pay. Too high.

John Eldredge

Oh hell no to this!

I’m not here to take my cues from you, and I’m sure as hell not giving up my dreams any longer to make someone else happy.

Writing a blog has literally help me heal my entire heart. It’s amazing what happens when you begin to let it all out.

I’ve finally reclaimed my voice and I’m not even sure exactly when or where I lost it, but I won’t ever lose it again.

I’m finally feeling like myself again and not like I’m sacrificing my own happiness to please someone else. That’s so unhealthy and dysfunctional and that shit stops here.

Some women are ok with coming last.

They don’t mind that you put work and golf and friendships and alcohol before them and the family, but I mind.

I know I deserve the very best and I won’t ever settle again.

There’s no sense in wasting your time trying to explain yourself to people that are committed to misunderstanding you.

Save your breath they don’t have the emotional intelligence to understand you. Instead figure out exactly what sets your soul on fire and then be brave enough to make your dreams come true.

Stop fighting and let go!

Acceptance is key to change and avoidance is the key to dysfunction.

You can repeat history or you can wake up!

Learn to focus on you because you are the only one you can change.

Wish me luck today I’m going back to the dentist for a check up.

Maybe by May I’ll have teeth and my life back just in time for a big ass birthday celebration.

💜 Tay Tay


God Bless


Self Love Means Finding The Home Within You

Self love is a journey into yourself my friends. It’s a spiritual level of enlightenment that can only come when your truly ready to be committed to yourself.

We often times look for home in others when we need to find the home inside of ourselves first. We give our power away to people that don’t deserve it and we pretend that it’s all right.

The reasons were so quick to do this is because we don’t know our worth. We must learn to make peace ✌️ with the voices in our heads. We have to learn the difference between our hearts and our heads.

It takes time to learn to love yourself especially if you’ve been talking shit to yourself your entire life. And if your not even aware of how you talk to yourself, pay attention to that starting today.

There’s a huge difference between making decisions from your heart and making them from your head. One comes from fear and logic and one comes from straight up hope.

Whenyou learn to love yourself then every thing is going to change. I think we have to break our own heart as many times as it takes for it to crack open and receive love.

Some lovely souls will never experience this level of spiritual enlightenment and this is ok dear ones, there are plenty of people that want to share the love.

As we begin to practice more and more self love we will continue to help others do the same. The law of attraction is so big that you will begin to naturally repel the fake friends in your lives and you will replace them with light seekers.

Self love takes time to learn and you’ve got to be committed to you! You don’t get a 6 pack at the gym by going for a week, and you sure aren’t going to become a professional lover of thy self by showing up for yourself once a week.

You’ve got to become committed to knowing the real you no matter what it takes.

Your not growing if your not uncomfortable

💜 Tay Tay

This Is My Life Right Now

Good Fritay Morning!

I’ve had quite the eventful week.

On Monday I started the process of getting my dental implants!

Holy shit to that procedure.

I’m guessing if I didn’t have a fractured septum it might have been a little less painful.

I had some goofy gas, like just a little bit. Enough to numb my hands and feet but my ass was awake for that. The posts are in place and now they have to heal for 3 months.

My mom says I’m bad ass to do that awake and aren’t our mothers always right?!?!?

I sure didn’t feel badass but I got it done.

I think it was a little bit rough on me just because of the accident that I had. It’s a little traumatic to go back to the place where you had emergency surgery to remove your teeth. But I am beyond blessed with my dentist and his staff, they are the most amazing souls around.

This whole process has been a challenge to say the least, but I will persevere my friends and keep on trucking.

If I could fast forward about 6 months I would most certainly do that but I sure as shit can’t so I’ll just keep sharing my light and my love with you as I continue to kick ass and take names.

I am a badass Warrior Goddess Of love and light and no matter what happens I will always shine my light. I’ve had lots of amazing things to be thankful for this week.

I had surprise flowers at the salon when I went to work one day with some candy and it was exactly what my heart needed.

I got my roots done which means I got to spend time with this beautiful soul, which I don’t get to do nearly enough of.

I saw the most beautiful sky on the way to take my daughter to school. Purple and pinks are my favorites.

I wrote a blog that had an enormous amount of reads! I love you and I thank you for following me and supporting my dreams! There’s a lot more to come 💜

I learned a new slang word from daughter so I don’t quite feel so old anymore! But I like that “she was shook!” Ha ha ha

I got to spend the entire day with my valentine! She loves me unconditionally and especially loves it when I dance with her! That’s why she’s smiling so big.

My momma bought me Chinese for Valentine’s Day and had it waiting at the house for me when I got off work.

I went tanning and not only did I get buy one get one free, but I also got free lotion and some candy.

I’ve had 13 different messages from people telling me how much I’ve helped them, and what a difference I’ve made in their lives.

So overall I would say I had an amazing week even with the implants.

Life is so crazy for me right now but I’m going to be just fine. I’m blessed with the ability to be authentic and it comes with an amazing amount of freedom.

I have no shame and I have no secrets and that makes for a life time of infinite light and love.

My souls needs some fun this weekend and my daughter is with her dad so I’m going to see what I can get myself into.

I hope that you have an amazing weekend surrounded by people you love.

Peace God Bless Namaste

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Valentine’s Day One & Done

I was blessed with the most amazing sky this morning. What a gift it was to witness.

It’s going to be different for me this Valentine’s Day but probably not in the way that you think.

Valentine’s Day is all about love. When I was single long before I ever got married I remember longing for a Valentine. I wanted someone to share that special day with.

I was so jealous that I didn’t have anyone to spoil me and show me how much they loved me. I often compared my singleness to their love and found myself sad and depressed on Valentine’s Day.

Then I met my husband (soon to be ex) and I still remember the first valentines present I ever bought him. It was a pair of silk boxers with red hearts on them. (Part Of The reason I remember so well is because I just threw those bitches away a few years ago, and I had to hide them in the bottom of the trash can so he wouldn’t see them)

He bought me the most beautiful little music box and I still adore it to this day. I remember these things so vividly because it was our first one together and it was so freaking special to me.

I also think it was probably the first and the last time he ever put any real effort into making my day special. It was like a one and done sort of thing so of course I remembered.

After a few years of hoping that he would spoil me again I got tired of feeling disappointed. I wanted romance and love and all the sweet feelings that came with it.

But he talked me out of it. Sure we went to dinner sometimes, but it was with a check that his mom sent us in the mail. (So romantic huh)

I got a card a few times and if I was really lucky he might even write a message in it for me. Flowers once in a blue moon.

Even though I just knew once I was married my Valentine’s Day would be completely different, it wasn’t at all what my heart desired.

How could this be?

How could I finally have a man and still feel empty and sad on Valentine’s Day? I thought for sure after that first VD I was going to have a life time of mushy gushy presents and love.

Did he trick me?

Or did he just do what he had to do to win me over?

I think he probably learned how to treat his wife by watching his dad and his mom. It’s where we learn everything from.

Over the years I tried to push away my desire to be spoiled and loved on Valentine’s Day and sometimes I actually convinced myself that I didn’t need anything from him.

But friends that was a lie.

I need love and I deserve to be spoiled every single day of my life and not just on Valentine’s Day. But I picked a guy who doesn’t know how to do that.

I picked a man that’s all about himself and that never changed.

But I changed!

I grew 💜 and I blossomed into the beautiful soul God wanted me to be.

God gives us love because it changes us

If your in a marriage where your not changing then your in the wrong love story and I encourage you to move on.

I don’t regret a single year of my entire life and I’m so happy that I finally learned what a healthy marriage is supposed to look like.

I’m so glad that God gave me Jon because I would have never been able to love the way I do now without spending 20 years with him.

I want to leave you all with this……….

Marriage is supposed to be a beautiful dance of desire and romance and if yours is as stale as yesterday’s oatmeal get the hell out.

Today I’ll spoil myself with the spousal support I finally received after months of being on my own.

I won’t harbor resentment for him at all because I’m well on my way to healing a broken heart and loving myself better then I ever have in my entire life.

I will tell you guys this though, don’t wait and beg and plead and hope that someone loves you the way you want to be loved.

Theirs actions will always show you who and what’s important. You have to be strong enough to love yourself if you ever want a partner who loves you.

Happy Valentines Day

Single and ready to mingle in like 3 months when I get my teeth ha ha ha

I love you all

💜Tay Tay

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God bless