It’s not about how you look…..

It’s not about what you look like, it’s about how you see.

As we continue on in 2020 I wanted to share this one with you, simply because we get stuck on the wrong things.

We spend so much time and money trying to make ourselves look and feel good with outside adorations.
And I used to be that way too.

I didn’t understand the magic that lies within me, because I was spending to much time on the outside. But the outside really doesn’t matter. Material things will get you no where fast.

Trying to dress up the outside without working on the inside will never ever work long term.
You see it doesn’t matter how many new outfits you buy, or how many times you go to the gym, if your unsure of who you are.

You will always be looking for the next purchase to make you feel better, but it won’t last. The temporary high of getting something new never does.

If your always trying to fit in then you will never be able to stand out. If your body is banging, and your house is beautiful, but you walk around dead on the inside you are not winning.

If your always looking for outside validation, you will find yourself running in circles and coming up empty.

If you truly want to change yourself then get real with yourself. Stop avoiding all the yucky stuff and learn to be still with it.

The happiest people are not those with the nicest things, they are the ones that have learned a new way to think and a new way to see.

They have learned to take down ALL of the walls and they’ve learned how to show up for a truly authentic life.

They aren’t perfect, but they also don’t come from this world. They are magical, spiritual, beautiful souls that feel more then they think.
That love more then they judge, and that have walked through their own darkness in order to become the person God created them
To become.

No my friends it doesn’t matter what you look like, or what you wear, or what you drive. It matters how you see and what energy your giving this world.



Tavia Hayduk
Gangster Of Love 💕
Copyright © 2020

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