When I decided to follow the magic in my heart, I knew that there would be people who disagree with me, and I’m totally ok with that.
I’m not here trying to make anyone believe anything that they don’t want to believe. I simply choose to be me and to show up every day and write and share my stories with the world.
This was the gift that was put on my heart and there’s no one else in this world who can offer what I have to offer, which is why we are all unique.
But here’s the really cool thing about life, we get to decide who and where we spend our time with. We get to choose who we allow into our space and we also get to decide when someone is no longer welcome.
Why I don’t mind at all having a healthy disagreement, I will not partake in an “I’m right and your wrong” battle.
When it comes to conflict we have it all wrong. If you want to talk to someone to understand them, then that’s totally ok. But if you want to argue with someone just to get them to agree with you, then I won’t be a part of that conversation.
We are all entitled to our own opinions and our own feelings. This I’m right your wrong shit doesn’t exist in my world, and if it tries to creep it’s way in I will do my best to nip it in the bud immediately.
What we’re not aloud to do is to insist that everyone feels like we do. The only place I’m down with it’s you against us when we’re speaking of my family and my friends and then you better beware. (Just Kidding, maybe)
“If you avoid the conflict to keep the peace then you start a war inside yourself”
If you don’t like what I have to say and it doesn’t resonate with you, then don’t read my blog, and don’t follow my social media.
If you love what I have to say, and you feel yourself inside my posts then welcome to a glorious hot mess of a girl that loves with her whole heart and isn’t afraid to speak her truth.
I’m not here to be liked by everyone and you shouldn’t be either. You also should waste no time or energy on those people that don’t get you.
They don’t have to understand you, those are NOT your people.
But the truth of the matter is that your life is your life friends, and you are in control of you.
Your responsible for all of your feelings and all of your actions. No one else can make you feel anything that you’ve not chosen to feel for yourself.
We don’t need to all sit at the same table, but that doesn’t mean that I hate you or that I don’t wish you well, it’s just that your not my people.
Namaste God Bless Peace
💜 Tay Tay
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Great post. Yes we are accountable for own responses to events and actions. Thank you.
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Your welcome beautiful lady 💜
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(I’m trying to understand you here, not to argue or make you change your mind.) So when you say, “We are all entitled to our own opinions and feelings,” do you actually mean that? Because when I expressed my feelings, you told me not to…and then forced me to shut up by blocking me. It’s so confusing because I genuinely thought that you were a person who would graciously accept all of me and all that’s in my heart. I wasn’t afraid to express my feelings to you because I thought you were a person of all-acceptance and love. I’m just so confused and trying to understand why you publicly drew attention to me expressing my feelings and told me I was wrong to feel that way. I’m really trying to understand and not argue with you! I don’t want you to change your mind, I want you to see that calling me out and saying I was wrong is a contradiction to the message you so boldly preach every day. If anything, I hope you’ve learned not to make this mistake again with someone else.
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Maybe you should take some responsibility for your part in all of this. If you wouldn’t have commented with a sad face we wouldn’t be here right now.
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