If he truly wanted to he would……. OK?

Oh my dear ladies and gentlemen, I’m writing this to both of you but I’m using the men as an example. But don’t get caught up in the he or she just listen to the message and save yourself a bunch of headache.

I see an epidemic occurring when it comes to online dating and getting to know new friends. You see technology has for sure changed things when it comes to dating, but at the same time there are still some really simple rules that apply to love in general and you can’t confuse them even a little bit.

If a guy likes you he’s going to find a way to talk to you and to hang out with you. There’s nothing in this world that will keep him from spending time with you, in fact if he really likes you, he will even begin to clear more time out of his busy life to spend with you.

Don’t listen to the words he uses, but rather the actions that follow the words. And don’t ever feel less then because of someone else’s insecurities.

If a guys not that into you, or he has his own issues he might ask you out, and then he flake on you. He could either actually cancel the date and ask for a rain check, or he could just ghost you after you’ve been getting to know each other.

He could just be seeing if your going to actually say yes, but once you do he changes his mind. I can’t tell you the number of guys that ask me out for a drink and never follow through, but it’s a shit ton.

I’m going to break the code and then I’m going to give to all of you for free.

So this summer I’m going to enjoy being single. I don’t need a guy to feel better about myself. I would like some adult fun and summer shenanigans but I don’t want a boyfriend.

I want a friend to laugh with and to be adventurous with. I want a spiritual man that knows how to have an intimate conversation and won’t shy away from himself.

Ive decided that this summer I’m going to have a lot of fun and I’m going to do the summer of 2019 like it’s 1999.

Relationship Status

Girl in the purple dress 👗

My first single summer in over 20 years and I’m going to make it amazing

Bring on the laughter

The cook outs

The sunshine

The pools

The barbecue

The weddings

The heat

The games

The fun

The family

The friends

The love

The excitement of lots of firsts

And sooooooooo much more

Bring me new

Bring me Presence

The summer I let go was going to be the best summer yet



I love you my friends

Thanks for reading my blog

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Peace God Bless Namaste

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