Yesterday I posted this on all of my social media platforms and some of you had me cracking up.
I think some people were honest and others were afraid to speak up, while others just wanted to give me personal advice on dating.
I’ve learned how to love myself wholeheartedly which is why I’m currently single. It turns out lots of people think being single today sucks.
I on the other hand am loving every single minute of putting myself first for the first time in 20 years.
I received a shit ton of inbox messages about dick pics and videos, which I found hilarious on so many levels. Because they weren’t lying, although I think men are totally turned on by the sight of body parts, woman actually prefer if you were in your underwear, or swimsuit and they don’t necessarily want to see you naked.
(Most women I do know a few who wouldn’t mind)
But this is what separates men from women, our brains. Other friends told me that they had met their spouses online and that they thought dating sites were an amazing way to meet someone new.
Other friends chimed in by saying that with the way technology is today they don’t think dating and courting even exist anymore. They shared with me that chivalry is dead and so is foreplay.
They said people don’t want to date or have a real connection, they just want to hook up.
It’s the instant gratification that comes with having so many choices at your fingertips. I laughed at so many things yesterday but mostly because I think lots of you were being completely honest and I love that about you.
I guess when it comes to dating in 2019 it’s a whole lot different then when I dated In 1999. I mean I used to have to beep my boyfriend on his pager and hope he could find a phone to call me back on.
Now a days you text a guy and he doesn’t answer, but he’s on Facebook. Or maybe you send him a Snapchat and he opens it but he doesn’t answer, but he sure does snap someone else.
I’m thinking these are clearly signals that these are not the guys or the ladies for you. Maybe dating in this century is different, but the same.
If you know your worth then you won’t waste it on a bunch of losers who play games. If they say that they are to busy then believe them. Don’t try to convince them of how awesome you are, just move on. Thank you Next!
Don’t try to make them see your worth it, because if they wanted to spend time with you they would.
I would love to hear from my friends in other states and other countries what you think about dating in these times.
I heard some really funny shit yesterday and I can’t wait to hear more.
Thanks for reading blog and for sharing your advice with me