Don’t be afraid to love again not everyone is like your EX

Don’t be afraid to love again NOT everyone is like your ex

In the midst of starting over I’ve learned a lot already about online dating and I’ve still got a shit ton more to learn.

As I was thinking this morning about how to

Attract the right kind of guy I realized a few things.

First of all I can’t control who’s attracted to me anymore then I can control the weather, but I do get to decide who I talk to and who I ignore.

All types of guys are hitting me up, and there’s nothing I’m doing right or wrong here.

When the messages start rolling in, how about you do a little work and decide who’s worth getting to know better and who’s not even a little bit worth your time.

This is the part you get a

Choice in.

Do you know what you want at this point in your life?

Do you just want a friend who understands where you’ve been?🤷‍♀️

Do you want to date and have fun but not actually hook up with anyone?🤷‍♀️

Do you just want a booty call and you could

Care less what the conversation is like?🤷‍♀️

Do you just want an online snapshot relationship that never results in any real life connection? 🤷‍♀️


Seems as though technology has really changed the way we court each other now a days.

If your a girl with no standards then guess what kind of guy your going to attract?

You guessed it sister!

I happen to think conversation is sexy so I don’t really

Care what you look like in your underwear.

And I’m not judging all the girls that are down for a little fun either. Like I said at the beginning of this article, you really need

To figure out what it is that you want because you will attract it all.

Everyone’s not after the same thing in this lifetime, and that’s what makes the world such an amazing place.

Decide what you want and then go for it.

I will leave you with this thought………

Things that we get for free are always taken for granted, but things that we have to earn and work hard for hold way more value in our lives 💜


Thank you next

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