No one is busy in this world
It’s all about priorities 💜
This is my family a few years back and I must admit we’ve changed quite a bit since this picture was taken.
I’m currently toothless, from a freak accident and I’m also living with my mom because I’m starting over after 20 years with my husband.
I know it sounds a little crazy and far fetched but I most certainly couldn’t make this shit up if I tried.
There will come a time in your life when you realize that you want more then you have.
For me it was a long process because I haven’t always had the easiest life.
This caused some big ass struggles when it comes to self love because I had to unlearn the the things that no longer served me and then learn a lot of new things about love.
Everyone isn’t going to have to same priorities when it comes to life. Some people care about status, some about money, some about themselves, some people care about their reputation, some people are materialistic, and some people care what the outside world thinks, more then the truth that they live.
I found myself sad and alone and surrounded by people who didn’t understand me. And try as I might to make things better and to sacrifice my time and energy into being a better wife and a better mother and a better friend for some people it was never good enough.
And after years of serving others I learned that it was time to pick myself. The things that are important to me are relationships, and they always have been.
You can’t impress me with your bank account or your fancy friends, because I don’t see people for what they have or what they do, I see right past all that nonsense and straight into their souls.
You can’t do things the way the world tells you that they should be done and do things the way the lord wants it done because those 2 things are complete opposites.
This year is going to different and I’m ready for it.
I’ll have to work harder and smarter but I won’t ever give up on the love that I know that I deserve.
We women spend so much time trying to make everyone else happy that we forget to make ourselves happy. It’s not selfish to care for your heart and your mind. Its actually the best present you could ever give your kids.
💜I will teach my children to find their own authentic voice and to use it.
💜To NOT be people pleasers because they aren’t here to make you or anyone else happy.
💜To use their voice even when it shakes, because the world needs more independent free thinkers.
💜To let go of people who use you instead of love you
💜To create healthy boundaries in every single relationship they have ours included
I didn’t know a couple of years ago that I would be where I am right now, but I can tell you without a doubt, even toothless there’s no other place I’d rather be.
As my favorite singer JT often says “I’m bringing sexy back” and it feels amazing.
Let go of the people that don’t belong in your life and you will be rewarded with new hellos.
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