Good morning beautiful souls 🧚🏻♂️
Today I’ve got a lesson for you on never giving up.
In 2016 I decided that I wanted to write a blog. I’d never been a writer before now, but I’d been doing so much work on healing my soul that I knew this one of my gifts.
I’ve never taken any writing classes and often times my punctuation and my grammar might not be up to par with this of you who have gone to college, but to me those things don’t really matter.
What mattered the most was that I was brave enough to just go for it. Of course I had many people who believed in my abilities to succeed, but I also had lots of people who thought who does she think she is?
You see my friends when you decide to change your life there’s going to be many people around you that want to keep you small, including all of the negative voices in your own head.
But I didn’t really care what anyone else thought, because I knew what was in my heart and I knew what I was capable of.
It would have been real easy to stop writing after the first year since I only had a couple thousand readers, but writing made me feel alive again so I decided to just keep doing it.
The more I wrote the better I got. The more I shared my truths the bigger my audience got.
It’s never been about the followers, but instead it’s always been about the messages that I send out into the world.
It’s about the lives that I can help!
The people who are changed because I was brave enough to tell the truth.
It’s about the love in my heart and the way that I’m supposed to be sharing it.
The next year I managed to make it to about 8,000 readers from all over the world. I mean there’s countries I’ve never even heard of that read my stories, and that’s pretty freaking amazing.
And the best part is when someone emails me or messages me and tells me how much I’ve helped them. It feels good to be able to give something back to the world that comes straight from my authentic, and that I built all by myself.
As I write to you this morning I’ve reached almost 18,000 readers this year alone and my heart couldn’t be more full. I’ve also started writing a book as a result of doing so well with my blog.
As I reach roughly 26,000 viewers total with my 3 years combined, I know that this is the path that I should be on.
It’s never easy when you decide that you want to live a bigger more fulfilling life. Your mind doesn’t want you you to grow, it wants to keep you small.
And we as humans tend to give up on ourselves before we can even get started. We try something for a couple months and then we throw it all away and we blame someone else for our own shortcomings.
If you want something you’ve never had then your going to have to do some shit that you’ve never done before. You must learn to overcome yourself, and that’s as real as it gets.
You can spend the rest of your life making excuses and blaming everyone else for where you are, or you can learn that the answer is hidden deep inside you.
It takes focus and dedication to yourself and it takes other people telling you where your going wrong. I had to hire a coach to help me because I couldn’t get past my fears.
I spent so many years working my “I can’t” muscle that my “I can” muscle was non existent. But changing my life was way more important to me then staying the same.
Now I get to coach people.
Now I get to help others get past themselves.
Now I am the fearless leader who puts it all out there so others can learn to find themselves.
It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks, it’s your life and you only have one of them. Are you going to remain small forever, or are you going to learn how to take a chance on yourself?
I don’t know what’s going to happen next but I do know that if you can be brave for just a little bit then you can create a new world that you’ve never even imagined.
I know that you can be rewarded by taking a chance in yourself, but that your going to have to overcome your self!
I’m so glad I didn’t listen to the haters, the naysayers and those who don’t believe in Magic, because if I did I wouldn’t be where I am right now.
When your ready to change your life I’m here to help you. I won’t coddle you and tell you what you want to hear, because that’s not how I roll.
I won’t allow you to be an askhole in my life and take up to much of my energy, because I’m here to help this that are truly committed to the change. You can do things toirnway or you can do things a new way, but you
Sure as hell cant do them both.
I share my stories with you because I’m
Brave enough to change the world by healing my heart!
My hope for you is that you learn how to brave also!
💜 Tay Tay