Choose people who choose you 💜
Learning to spend time with people who build you up instead of tear you down will help you become a better you.
This goes for anyone
I make no apologies for where and who I spend my time with. I refuse to be around people who are committed to misunderstanding me.
It’s taken me years upon years to develop boundaries and a healthy voice to share with others. Boundaries are always for us, never for the other person.
Pictures yourself as A house.
A strong mighty house.
Now put a fence around your house and think about who your going to let into your yard and who’s aloud to come inside your house.
Everyone is not aloud admittance. Only certain people are aloud to knock on the door and to enter. You are the one who decides who’s coming in and who’s staying out.
You might even let them in for a little bit and then decide that was a bad idea so you get them out and you don’t open the door again.
You don’t just let every single person into your home and the same goes for your heart.
You get to decide what makes you feel good and what makes you feel bad.
You decide what’s love and what judgment.
And family doesn’t get a free pass to treat you shitty just because your related. Some family members might not be able to be a part of your life and that’s ok, because as I said earlier this is about YOU, not them.
As you begin to think of boundaries in your relationships I want you to think of boundaries around your body as an energy field.
Don’t allow toxic people or ideas in your space. Don’t allow guilt or fear to control your choices 💜
I don’t care what anyone else has told you your entire life I’m here with a conscious message.
Pick your friends wisely
Spend time with those who build you up
Get away from those who drain you
And learn to choose people who choose you