If I cut you off it’s because you handed me the scissors

If I cut you off it’s because you handed me the scissors ✂️

Friends there are times in your life when you have to cut people out. Everyone doesn’t always have your best interests in mind.

Sometimes relationships are lopsided and this goes for all of them. Friendships, marriages, family members and more. Just because you once had a relationship with someone doesn’t mean that they always get to be in your life.

When we hang out with people they either make us feel good or they make us feel bad and there’s no in between. They either add value and love to our everyday lives, or they bring judgment and resentments into our world.

If you think about your relationships like a bank account you need to have way more deposits than you do withdrawals.

It’s the simplest way to understand your value to them and to yourself. If your friends with someone who takes more then they give you will feel somewhat used and misunderstood.

If you allow others to disrespect you and take advantage of you then you have to admit your role in allowing them to do so.

People can’t treat you badly unless you let them. And don’t you be fooled into thinking that their behaviors and attitudes have anything at all to do with you.

Some people are insecure, unhappy, miserable souls and they want you to feel just like they do. They will project their dramas onto you simply because they aren’t emotionally intelligent enough to understand that they are the ones with the issues.

Don’t fall for it

Don’t get sucked into their small minds

Don’t allow those people to make you feel unlovable

And don’t you dare for one more second surround yourself with people who don’t deserve your presence

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God Bless



6 thoughts on “If I cut you off it’s because you handed me the scissors

  1. I am currently going through this and I cut people off! Not sure if they noticed but I have and I dont regret it. We outgrow people as we get older and we move. Not everyone is meant to go to the next level of your life! Great post

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