Nothing is more important than empathy for another human being’s suffering
Not a career
Certainly not status
We have to feel for one another
If we’re going to survive with dignity
If it were for empathy I wouldn’t be surviving right now. If it weren’t for the kindness that I’ve put into the world, then I wouldn’t have any kindness coming back.
I can tell you this in the midst of the change somedays are easy and somedays just suck
And I just go with it because I’ve never been through this before. It’s been a million years since I’ve had a break up or a broken heart and I sure as hell didn’t plan this.
Is there a reason why a broken heart is one of the hardest things to put back together? Or maybe it’s not just the heart, maybe it’s the idea of losing what you thought you had. Maybe it’s the feelings that come along with pain and rejection or maybe It’s the only way to heal.
Maybe it’s the feeling of losing your man one day at a time one month at a time and one year at a time. Maybe it’s because I could already see it happening and after doing all that I could to save us, I realize that was never Gods plan.
God knew it was time for me to protected, to be loved unconditionally, to be treasured and adored to receive the love that I give so freely.
Sometimes we fall in love with words instead of actions. Sometimes we believe people will pick us until the very end. I would love to feel sorry for myself and I did for a minute but now I focus on all that I will receive instead of the things that I will lose.
I thought my husband and I would fix our marriage and we would be able to help other couples save theirs as well.
I thought God was going to use us to counsel others by sharing our stories.
It turns out what I want doesn’t usually occur. I am helping my friends learn about their marriages it’s just not in the way that I saw it happening.
I think Gods got big plans for my teaching and my healing but I’ll be doing it solo. Maybe you can learn what’s important and what’s not before it’s to late.
I learned what God intended for marriage and it’s the most beautiful thing in the world. I hope that you realize the gift you have in your spouse before it’s to late.
I hope your brave enough to do things differently then I did and I wish you many many years of growing up, and growing old together.
💜 Tay Tay