What does forgiveness mean to you?
Over the years I’ve struggled with forgiveness.
It wasn’t something that I was taught, at least not in the way that I view it today.
We are so often instructed to keep our feelings hidden and honor the wishes of others, but this is the worst advice you could ever take.
Seriously denying your own feelings to make other people happy is one of the biggest forms of dysfunction that occurs in families and relationships.
Forget everyone else when it comes to you. Learn how to find your authentic voice and then listen to it.
You don’t have to forget just because you forgive. You can separate yourself from any relationship that doesn’t make you feel good about yourself.
You are an adult and now it’s time to make healthier choices for yourself.
If someone hurt you several times already then it’s very likely they will hurt you again.
You can’t control what they do, but you can control what you do! 💜
You can decide if these people deserve a place in your heart or if they deserve to be a distant memory in your mind.
But what’s most important for you is to figure yourself out. Stop giving all your power away to people who do absolutely nothing positive for you.
🧚🏻♂️You are an a adult
🧚🏻♂️You get to rewrite the rules of your life
🧚🏻♂️Forgivenesses is a lesson you must learn
🧚🏻♂️Letting Go Of negative people is a must
🧚🏻♂️Use your voice no matter what
🧚🏻♂️forgiving yourself is the most important lesson of all