Remember the marble jar?
🧚🏻♂️Think of it as a container for your relationships
It’s truly the simplest way to understand the basics of healthy relationships
🧚🏻♂️When you say nice things, do nice things and make an overall conscious effort to nourish the relationship then you are adding more marbles to the container
Otherwise known as deposits
(Into your love tank)
🧚🏻♂️When you are critical, judgmental, or just plain unavailable then you are taking marbles out of the jar
Otherwise known as withdrawals
(From your love tank)
Be sure to check in with each relationship and see where your marbles are
Is it overflowing with marbles?
Or are there none left?
We all have emotional bank accounts and we get to decide when some of them need to be closed forever and when some need to be closed for a while
We also get the opportunity to start new jars with new people that God has brought into our lives for this very reason
🧚🏻♂️For more marble love check out Brene’ Brown