Some women are lost in the fire and some women are made from the fire.
Have you ever wondered what the deciding factor is in those who become the fire?
I believe that we all have the ability to overcome our lives and our childhoods, if we’re willing to investigate our hearts.
You know what they say, our hearts will fix themselves but our minds will need some help. That’s because our minds are like a stamp and when we have trauma it’s recorded in our brains.
We now get to decide if we’re going to live with these feelings, push them away and pretend they don’t exist, or take the time to heal them so we can live healthier lives.
I resemble all of these, because I’ve lived them all. I used to push away the bad things until I knew a better way. I used to think that by ignoring them, that they might go away completely.
But that wasn’t the case! It turns out I had to be willing to examine the hurt in order to heal it and let it go. I had to be willing to open up and let it out so that I could receive the love that I deserve from myself. 💜
Maybe I was keeping myself safe for years, but at the same time I was unable to receive certain feelings and emotions because I was unable to take the cages off of my heart!
You see we think we’re keeping ourselves safe, and that we won’t be able to get hurt again, but by doing this we are unable to receive the healing we need to move on.
And then the dysfunction is passed along to the next generation and the story continues.
But it doesn’t have to be this way!
You can make the changes in your life that will make things different for the next generation.
By healing yourself your healing every single woman that comes after you and even some that came before you.
I’m the girl who changed who story 💜
Who are you?