“We can’t become what we need to be by remaining who we are”

I’ve learned many life lessons this year, but this one is by far my favorite. We can’t become what we need to become by staying who we are.

I resemble this on every single level possible. Sometimes the things I need to change are the very things that I avoid, or deny. They are the things that I’m aware of, and blind to at the same time.

I know that I need to learn to be more organized for example, but I’m not really become more organized. I’m wasting energy thinking about being organized, but I’m not actually taking any steps to make it happen.

I need to have a plan when it comes to my blogging also. It’s grown beyond my wildest dreams and I know it’s time to take it more seriously.

How much better would I feel on Monday morning, if I decided what I was going to write about everyday? I’m thinking it sounds like a great plan, and that I need to do it.

And then…………..

the other side of my brain kicks in and it says things like, “you don’t need a plan, that’s why your an entrepreneur” or “you are your own boss because you don’t want to have to play by the rules” or “organization makes me feel like I’m going I’m being suffocated”!

Seriously people those are my thoughts, plus about 12 more. I have the idea to want to do it, but I refuse to commit to the process of getting there.

Is it because I secretly think it will be more work?

Is it because I don’t want to commit to the planning process?

Is it because I lack discipline?

Is it because it’s not really that important to me?

Is it because I don’t have time?

Is it because I’m a rebel without a cause?

Is it because I’m afraid to change?

Is it because I’m lazy?

I guess it could be any of those things, or all of them depending on my current mood! 💜

Wether I want to get organized or not, it’s a must at this point in my life. So instead of fighting the inevitable I’m going to come up with a plan this week.

I’m going to write it down and I’m going to stick with it. Even if it feels weird and awkward, I’m going for it.

When it’s all said and done and I have a plan, I know that things will be easier. I will have more clarity inside myself and my vision will be stronger.

What do you need to do in your life to create a new level of personal growth?

What steps can you take today to make it happen?

I suggest simply writing down what it is that you want, and then writing the steps it will take to get it! 💜

Thank you for stopping bye

I hope you all had an amazing Christmas 🎄

Here’s to a week full of change💜

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