How I learned to stop giving my power away

Do you know how many times a day you give your power away?

A lot, if you don’t understand what I’m talking about. I still do it occasionally, however I have learned how to minimize my giving.

I’m a work in progress and so are you. This morning I felt compelled to write about this. When I say your giving your power away what I mean is that your energy needs to be focused else where.

We can only control ourselves and our responses to those we interact with. So we need to learn to focus on ourselves and not others.

You give your power away every single time you choose to be offended by someone. Don’t make other people’s dramas about you. Don’t take on their energy because they are unconscious and unhappy.

Every single time you find yourself feeling like the victim to someone else, you know that your mind is in the wrong place.

People are people and their actions NEVER have anything to do with you. I understand that’s it easy to think πŸ€” “I don’t know what I ever did to her” but as soon as you think it, your power is gone.

Poof!

πŸ‘» Disappeared

Whatever is going on with her, is all about her. It has absolutely nothing at all to do with, and the sooner you learn this the happier you will be.

Circle of control friends πŸ’œ learn it πŸ’œimplement it πŸ’œ use it proactively

Another way we give our power away is by saying that you made me act that way. It’s your fault I was mad, sad, angry, jealous, hurt or disappointed.

It’s your fault I’m unhappy. It’s your fault I talked to you like that.

No nope no way

Our thoughts cause our feelings. We are responsible for our own stuff, but we’re not responsible for other people’s stuff.

Blame talk will get you no where spiritually. It holds you emotionally hostage and you won’t be able to move forward.

Take that energy your wasting blaming everyone else and turn it inward. Focus on you!

When you learn to practice the pause and not just unconsciously wonder through life, your journey will change. Your path will become clear and you will grow on the inside.

You will have to be brave and you will have to actively choose to create new thoughts if you want a new reality.

I think you’ll find that it’s worth the time and the effort because the peace surpasses the chaos!

Have a great weekend guys πŸ’œ

Thank you for reading my blog I appreciate you


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