When life seems overwhelming and you can’t figure it out?
I always believe the lesson lies in the middle of the storm. Sometimes things need to be broken completely so they can be put back together differently. It might not seem like it at the time, because growth requires pain, and letting go.
It requires strength in making new choices. It makes us become more conscious of what’s going on inside of us, and it helps us heal some of the broken.
When you were a young child, you developed coping mechanisms to get you through your life. The thing we don’t realize is that we often respond to the ones we love the most from our hurt selves. They trigger in us what needs healed, and what needs fixed.
But your ego doesn’t want you to heal. It wants you to stay safe and to avoid the pain, and so begins the cycle again. We don’t want to live our lives in shut down mode, even if our subconscious says so.
It’s sometimes just our default system, and we’re not even aware that we are there. We are so used to defending ourselves, we don’t realize there’s no need for that anymore.
There’s an internal battle that ensues inside all of us. We all have the same struggles they are just a little different depending on our childhoods. We all want to experience the love and the light that comes with life.
But my friends you cannot experience light without dark.
You can’t have a morning without an evening.
You can’t have a beginning without an end.
If your willing to go through your own hell you will come out healthier on the other side!