Today I’m going to inspire you look at your personal power. I’m going to help you understand that your in charge of you.
So often people give their power away, for no good reason, other then that’s their normal. They are reacting as they always have. But if you want to change your life, then you need to take some responsibility for where you are first.
Even though we all have different life’s, and different situations, the one thing we all have in common is that we’re human. So we are the same, in many ways. We all want to be loved, we all want to be accepted, and we all want to be seen.
We want to heal our own hurts, but we just don’t know how to do it. We all have some emotional baggage trapped inside us, and many of us don’t know what to do with it.
Some of us, (me included) have been carrying around unresolved issues for years. They have become such a normal part of our everyday life, that we might begin to believe that WE ARE our issues.
We might begin to believe that WE ARE our dramas.
We also believe we are the things that happened to us.
But this is because we are operating out of our little kid egos. The little kid that was hurt, or rejected, or unloved and unprotected is still inside you. This child needs some healing and some love. This person inside of you needs you to come save them, because it’s only you who can do the work.
Often times people can’t even fathom that things from their childhoods, are messing up their lives today. But it’s true, and denial will only keep you stuck in your pain, and unable to blossom into anything more.
No one is free from being a child. We were all children once. Your parents did the best they could, and their parents did the best they could. So let go of making this about your parents, and just make it about you.
This is not the blame game, but it is the authentic game. We want to reclaim our whole selves. The person we were meant to be before we experienced pain.
We want to take personal responsibility for how the rest of our lives are going to play out. We want to find our voice and start using it to love ourselves, instead of beat ourselves up. We want to stop playing our own games, that keep us emotionally unavailable.
Where’s your emotional IQ?
Do you deal with your feelings?
Or do they deal with you?
Do you respect your emotions?
Or were you taught to stuff them away?
Are you willing to dig deep inside and heal the hurts caused by your childhood?
Are you read to learn how to love yourself the right way?
Are you ready for a change?
It’s a new month, and if I can heal my broken child, then so can you. But only if your willing to look inside. Only if your ready to stop blaming others, and to get real with yourself.
Will you choose the fear that keeps you stuck?
Or will you choose the love that will set you free?
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