Resentment resides because you allow it. Resentment kills happiness, and it keeps you stuck in a very bitter, unhealthy place. If you could understand how much power you give away by letting other people control your emotions, you would stop doing it.
I used to be the queen of resentment 💜however it has no home here anymore. I’ve learned so much about myself, that resentment comes and goes, it doesn’t stay stuck in my body. I feel it, I acknowledge it and I tell it to get to stepping!
I’ve created healthy habits for myself, that don’t involve my wounded ego.
They involve my inner goddess, and my true spirit. I don’t operate from a place of fear. I come from a place of love and loyalty to myself, and those who deserve that part of me.
When we play the victim in our own lives it will only make us bitter. It’s so easy to constantly blame everyone else, when in all honesty, we are in control of ourselves. Every choice we make has a consequence. Some are good and some are bad, but they are all yours.
Resentment is a choice, and it’s a breeding ground for self destruction. When you resent someone, you’re only hurting yourself. You are the one who carries around the anger all day, and you are the one who has to deal with it. You are the one who is responsible for whatever your attracting into your own life.
Anger places a real threat on your body, and your mental health. A healthy feeling should come and go within minutes, it shouldn’t last for long. If your mad at someone for a week or a month, you are choosing to stay angry. You have confused your pain from the past with your current situation. Feelings cannot stay alive inside of us, unless we have not dealt with them.
There is no tricking yourself, or the universe. You can’t give something that you don’t have to give.
Real power and strength come from a place of love, not a place of jealousy or competition. The next time you find yourself falling into the blame game, turn it around and look at yourself. See what parts of you need the most work, and see where you need to change.
Make it a habit of looking inside to see what lessons you’ve yet to learn. The universe will
Continue to send you what you need to grow and to learn, but it’s up to you to be responsible for yourself!
It’s up to you to be that change in your own life ⭐
You can learn great things from your mistakes when you aren’t busy denying them!